15.3.13

Amour : a few notes


Amour’s protagonist is not death (nor any of its humans, impeccable acting though they perform), but silence.

Music (always solo piano, either live or on CD) is played on five occasions:  by the student-cum-performer at his Parisian concert, by him again in Anne’s and Georges’ apartment, by Georges briefly, and with CD recordings by the student and possibly Anne.  The final three renderings are brief, interrupted; silence is chosen over the music.  Opening and closing credits are done in silence—the silence of the opening broken by crashing doors to the reek of death, the silence of the closing preceded by Anne’s ghost speaking the prosaic, Aren’t you taking a coat?

The dialogue is almost mythic in its everyday sparseness, much of the film’s meaning conveyed by gesture, glances, aversions, absence.  There are no answers to or attempts to answer the primary questions of love, family, meaning, suffering, death.  They exist on their own; silence speaks their murky unspeakable truths.

The melancholic and common analogy between the dependent infant—diapered, babbling—waxing into life, and the dependent geriatric—diapered, babbling—waning from life, is secondary to the more deeply melancholic comparisons established.  While no children are present in the film, Amour highlights life’s arc through youth (Alexandre, the musician, busily and importantly successful; the second nurse, emotionally incompetent in her technical competence) and middle age (Eva, Anne’s and Georges’ daughter, obsessed with money, security, fidelity; the concierge and her husband, respectfully concerned).  A kind of helplessness is everywhere—youth’s inability to comprehend aging; middle age’s inability to construct sufficient defences to dam the lurking terror of decline; the inability of respectable concern, medicine, hired-help to do much of anything—underpinned by the nearly mute and choreographed dance of Georges and Anne.

An aspect of their dance is the ironies and parodies of a once-vital eros, altered through daily scrimmage and subtextual negotiation into a familiar companionship, not unpleasant, the good-enough marriage.  This parody begins with the sexual suggestiveness and rejection upon the couple’s return from the concert (he: shall we have a drink?  she: i’m tired.  he: i fancy another drink. she: do as you please [continues to talk].  he: did i tell you that i thought you looked very pretty tonight. she: what’s gotten into you?  he smiles with familiarity, resignation, goes into the kitchen.  she: the semiquavers in the presto were incredible. what subtlety!)

The wry smile turns to a cringe when they’re in the bathroom together and he pulls up her panties; later, when she touches his hand and the graze almost offends him in pretending to close a gap that has almost opened to infinity.

Then ,when Anne says, still with moments of lucidity, when looking through the photographs of her life, Life is beautiful, we can’t help but agree and object.  This ambivalence—life’s ambivalence—threads its way through the film.

One of its threads is the relationship between society’s chitchattiness and nothingness, highlighted almost to the point of laughter (were it not for its familiar pathos) in Anne’s and Georges’ domestic rituals and negotiations (the salt cellar exchange in the kitchen, the newspaper reading and interruptions in the parlour), spiralling outward toward the mute archaeologies of marriage and family, the emotional resonance of space (even we come to identify with the rooms, finally being shown the spare room at the end, when Georges is alone).

Language’s ambivalence is centrally shown during the comic-horrific exchange between Anne and Eva, as the daughter’s seemingly normal but obviously absurd concerns with money contrast with the mother’s fragmented response—seemingly absurd, but pointing to truth (not dissimilar to Lucky’s central speech in Godot).

(While so little of the film is shot in society—most of it intimate, private—the only public social shot, in the opening at the concert, begins with a view of the audience from stage [the detachment of death, silence], also nodding to The Crowd and strangely mirroring the opening of another very different ’12 film—Holy Motors.)

Perhaps less apparent is the ambivalence between nature and the city:  the faucet, the rain, as backdrops to moments of decline; the pigeon (innocent because without moral knowledge, speechless, rather awkward and stupid) haphazardly intruding into the apartment, captured by Georges in a kind of danse macabre (and we are tense, are we not? will he catch it? kill it? free it? the moment seems pivotal), contrasted with the weight of our knowledge.  Amour is stretched between the discontents of civilization and their dark haphazard unknowing roots (Paris is the perfect environment for this, though we hardly glimpse it, stuck as we are in a cosmic domesticity), and we along with it, elastics as we are, testing our substance on the finger of time, about to snap on the timeless edges of earth.

Sometimes seemingly at the center but orbiting around it is death—holy of holies, the door behind the door, Anne flowered and dried, like A Midsummer Night’s Dream (or is it Nightmare?—we can’t say).

Partially revealed (and isn’t everything in the film partially revealed?) is the West’s sophisticated but sterile treatment of death—its clinicization and denial.  Anne knows when she should die and says so to Georges.  She does not have the will to insist; he does not have the will to comply; both operate within societal confines that they have purchased and so limit their vision and action.   Near the end, as his frustration mounts, as he breaks his bond and threatens her with hospitalization (he: they can force-feed you there), an evident contrast between the lack of dignity inherent in our culture of prolonging life (of quantitative willful life over qualitative contextual life) and the dignity embedded in the elder monk’s self-immolation in Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter... and Spring.

Georges’ precise recounting of the standard absurdity, stupidity, and brutality in the funeral he attends amplifies modern society’s awkward, technological, schizophrenic and foundationally inhumane and immature relationship with death.

Even at Anne’s end, her body rejects its rejection.  Only Georges is calm; Georges, with his three dreams (of his own death, of Anne playing the piano, of her in death bringing him through a door—to death? to life for a time?).

Along with life, death, love, family, society, technology, and language, art doesn’t escape the ambivalent thread—the music that surrounds and bolsters the couple’s life together collapses into silence, redeeming nothing.

Amour speaks the darkness society avoids.  It speaks it primarily in silence, which binds the film and us together, like a ghost, like gravity, like worms and bees.


Here is a more comprehensive and philosophical take on the film—


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